First One To The Finish Line Wins.

It’s all good the dating, the getting to know a stranger with the idea of the possible potential that they could become a “someone” to you, but when it comes to the work and the maintenance, who is responsible for the up keep?, and making sure that no cracks appear in the fresh foundation? I remember once, I suppose we were dating, although it was quite brief, it wasn’t really clear, it was all sweet and new in the beginning, but then, nothing, no contact on both parts for some unknown reason, I try to recall exactly why but it doesn’t come to me, although I know it was something completely harmless on both sides, a lack of credit or a trip abroad maybe, and then a month or 2 of time goes by before , a message of complete blame and a victimised style of writing comes through, accusations of being used, of being ignored and forgotten about, but realistically isn’t it a two way street?, was it really my job to keep in contact and give an easy ride?, when did it become a game of first one to the finish line wins, and the prize of playing the victim was awarded, while the bad guy ribbon was pinned to the one who finished last, maybe this is an easy way out for someone who couldn’t figure out a nicer way to just say, “I'm just not interested”, or “I've met someone else”, or maybe it’s for someone who realised it’s been so long without any contact, and they’d better slip on their running shoes, I think people should just grow up and own up to their mistakes, I would have apologised, if it would have been reciprocated that is, but the clear message of how it wasn’t going to be so 50/50 ended any further contact there and then, can’t people just take an equal slice of the blame, cant people just tell it how it is before it gets to the worst possible point, when are people going to not be in such a rush to run away from their problems to that finish line, with smooth ride included.